“I may look like debris, but I’m a masterpiece.
My next heart beat deserves a press release”.
– Shane Koyczan
Teddy will be OK.
I’m back at the home I am staying at after a rush visit to a veterinarian‘s office in Vernon, B.C. (I am on the road, staying at a friends, while in transition)
The good news is, I started crying in the lobby at the vet’s after they treated Teddy because they said “no charge.” Yep, they didn’t charge me. So much has gone wrong daily since I arrived in the Okanagan that this vet clinic was a breath of fresh air.
Teddy has never been injured before. Poor guy, he was so confused.
Teddy stepped on some cacti burrs at a dog park!
With long 2 inch spines/spikes.! What are those doing at a dog park that I thought was safe for dogs!?
He got two burrs stuck in the bottom of his foot pads. I calmly got one out but couldn’t get the other spikes/burrs out without hurting him.
And the problem was, we had a long way to walk back to the car, including not just the hiking trail we had been on at the park, but pavement in the parking lot, so I feared that the long cacti spikes would be driven further into his foot.
In the end, it got stuck in my sweatpants and attached to my sweatpants … and MY leg!
My leg quickly got all red with a rash. I am still in the midst of an allergic reaction to the cacti and on Benedryl.
Teddy is sleeping. It took everything out of him, today.
The kindness at the veterinarians office, and the AMAZING vet tech, who made a bad situation better. Thank you Central Animal Hospital. You are angels, and were kind to a visitor in your town, and I will not forget you. You cared not only about me while I have been in a crisis, but showed kindness, love and care for my dog.
There are kind business owners out there.
But what a rough day. Time for a nap.
This is a post of the Adventures of Teddy and Brenda which I hope to never repeat again. Thankfully, my dog is OK. Please note my warning to the public below:
– Brenda Johima
P.S. The next day :
Those spiky cactus burrs took everything out of Teddy and I. Teddy is still in bed! It’s 9:38 AM and he hasn’t even cared to go out and pee or eat breakfast. He has really really slept in, which has given me extra rest this morning also.
Hopefully he will perk up soon and be OK.
P.S. I DO hope that the City of Vernon cleans up their dog parks, and at MINIMUM, posts visible warning signs at the dog park to let people know that there are such dangerous plants there.
The park that Teddy got injured at is called Becker Park and it is listed as a “Dog Park” by Greater Vernon Recreation Services. I do NOT recommend it, unless they post warning signs to warn of the dangerous plants (long spikes on cacti burrs) that could harm both dogs and people. There was also garbage strewn about throughout, again, not safe for dogs.
health is a slippery slope.
you climb up.
you slide back down.
to where you started from.
even further down the hill.
to a place you have never been before.
wondering how the heck.
you got there
from where you once were.
– Brenda Johima
I’m in a major transition. Recovering from cancer while in a housing transition. It’s a bit much. Overwhelming and stressful, but Teddy makes it more FUN.
Wherever I go, my dog Teddy goes. We are a team.
Is it easy traveling with a 70-pound standard poodle in tow? While staying at other peoples homes and such?
Not so much. (but I wouldn’t change a thing about owning him. I love my buddy)
I did a fantastic job of socializing Teddy from a young age as a pup. I wanted to be able to put him into almost any situation, to take him almost anywhere, and he would be able to handle it, from farm country and rural, to big city streets and hotels.
Well, it is not all that easy having a big poodle with you … when it’s rural. (mind you, I suppose it depends on the time of year and the location)
Right now where I am, it has been very dusty and dirty everywhere, left overs from winter apparently. So on every walk that Teddy and I take together down rural roads, it has meant that dust and dirt is flicked up onto Teddy’s underbelly and legs as he walks. We walk a lot.
He is cream in colour. Ha. How do I keep him clean while in the homes of others?
It’s an interesting challenge. Once I took him to a doggie bath at a pet store in town. It was like a car wash for dogs and it worked quite well, and although not quite to my standards, it did the job in a pinch.
And then there was the place that I stayed where Teddy discovered alpaca poop. Luckily he did not roll in it, but he ran on it, through it and … yeah, I think he ate some of those tasty bits. Mildly stinky. I don’t like having a stinking dog. This is why I chose a standard poodle … no shedding, no stinky.
But alpacas and farm smells? Well, I made the mistake of showering Teddy at the residence I was staying at and … guess what? We were suddenly homeless. Ooops.
Onto the next place.
So far it is going well. Very well.
Except for the day that Teddy was ecstatic to find a friend to play with at the park! A lovely border collie.
It started raining. The grass in the park was saturated but little did I know (as I do not know the area well) that there were mud puddles, and mud, just outside of the fenced area that the dogs were running and playing in … and guess where Teddy went?
Straight for the mud, laid in it, and then straight into the mud puddles … from one to the next to the next … numerous times. He was having a grand time! The new lady that I met at the park who had her border collie was laughing and laughing. (of course, because she was lucky enough to own one of those dogs that doesn’t like to get their paws wet or dirty)
Teddy LOVES mud and water. If there is water, he is in it! He is a hunting/retrieving dog after all.
So I had to get him not only into my car, which has black leather seats, but back to the home that I am staying at … and Clean! I really did not want to drive 30 minutes into town to bath the dog and then 30 minutes back. That would be about 2 hours out of my day I wasn’t planning for.
So into the nearby river Teddy went! The water is fresh and clean (but chilly) right now, so it worked pretty well, and he thought he was swimming, so we were both happy.
Four towels later, and he was good to go have a snooze in his bed.
I had a nap.
So there is my first little Adventures with Teddy and Brenda. Hope you enjoyed it!
P.S. So far these trips have given me a stinky dirty dusty muddy standard poodle who sheds when I brush him out.
P.S.P.S. If you like this little story and would consider donating to my new fundraising campaign, Help Brenda Build A Life Without Cancer, I would be ever so grateful. This is my first story, that will help fund my breast cancer recovery, healing and major life changes. Thank you. <3
Today I am announcing a NEW fundraising campaign, Help Brenda Johima Build A New Life Without Cancer.
One special friend set it all up for me, did the writing and everything. I am grateful.
Several online friends had suggested that I put up a new fundraising page, since the last fundraiser, A Helping Hand for Brenda, ended on December 31st, 2014, and I am still struggling to get back on me feet again financially, and to regain my health, stamina and energy levels on a consistent basis.
I am still not working.
Frankly, I have been exhausted.
Energy levels are up and down and I still need partial or full days of bed rest sometimes. I wasn’t expecting this … or maybe more accurately, I thought that even though I had read about cancer fatigue, that my healthy lifestyle and good nutrition would allow me to beat it and that I would be full of energy. I was convinced it wouldn’t happen to me. Ha.
Now I know that “Cancer fatigue” and “chemo-brain” are very, very real and although I do hope that these eventually they lift, at this time, it is a daily struggle.
Putting together a few sentences into a paragraph, or a few paragraphs into a page, seems impossible on some days, so completion might take weeks instead of days. Writing, you would think, would be simple for someone like me, who has almost always been writing effortlessly. Chemo-brain makes getting organized thoughts out of the brain and onto paper or screen, a real challenge much of the time.
What were once high energy levels, are reduced to daily fatigue.
I am grateful for the online friends who took the time to suggest ideas and titles for new fundraiser, and to support and love me through this all. I have been in a crisis over the last 3-4 weeks on many levels. Yes, crisis.
I am NOT good at asking for anything and certainly not good at asking for money for myself. The topic of money makes ASKING even harder for me, when you know you that you are going to put yourself out there, the good, the bad, the joy and the ugly, for all the world to see and to read online.
The only way that I know through anything is to keep telling the truth, keep admitting the truth, and to have the courage to share it with others. This is the only way through crisis and pain for me. A shift for the better, eventually happens.
At almost 54, I am just learning to ASK, now. Maybe if I admit this here, it will help somebody else to lessen the shame, and to learn also, to have the courage to ASK, as I am just learning now.
Crisis? What crisis?
On top of recovering from cancer treatments, I am also in a housing transition at the moment, which has been extremely stressful. I am not sure where I will end up next, but am currently staying here and there with friends, with a 70 pound standard poodle in tow. Not an ideal situation for anybody who has had cancer recently.
I stumbled in my own brain for almost 4 weeks trying to write text, just only a few paragraphs. I could not do it.
I am sharing this fact to help others, to release the shame and embarrassment, of chemo/cancer related cognitive challenges, and to provide HOPE, as I know it MUST eventually get better, my memory and brain function post-chemo … and, my life. And it will get better for YOU also, if you are going through similar challenges or know someone who is.
So what about this NEW fundraising journey?
I will be doing two things:
- One, on the YouCaring page, “Help Brenda Build A Life Without Cancer,” I will be providing regular updates, and sharing regularly, my “healing walks” with Teddy along with a photo. This was Philippa’s idea. I like it.
- And here on this blog? My friend Charlsie had another great idea, and I will be implementing this right here. I will chronicle my journey from where I am now, forward to six months. I will share the adventures of Brenda and Teddy as I recover and heal, progress, change and grow, and move forward in my life.
Any dollar amount as a financial gift, a donation from family, friends and strangers, WILL help.
I hope you will join me.
Brenda and Teddy